Sunday, April 22, 2007

Help! I Want to Get Rid of My Girlfriend

I heard from a young man last week who was having trouble breaking off a relationship. He wanted to know how the Law of Attraction could help him.

Let’s consider this together. There were obviously some things about his girlfriend that were keeping him interested. So I asked him to list them. I also asked him to list what it was about her he didn’t like. It’s ok to consider things you don’t like about a person or job because once done they can be restated as positive attributes. It’s important to get very clear on what you’re looking for whether it’s in a person, a job, or any goal.

We then discussed turning those attributes he was looking for into positive affirmations. For example, I’m so happy and grateful that I have found a partner who shares my interest in spiritual pursuits. I’m so excited and thankful that I’ve found a partner who shares my interest in the outdoors. Go through each attribute and write an affirmation for each one. Start reviewing and reciting them each morning and afternoon. Place them around your bathroom mirror so that you can read them while at the sink in the morning.

Now that he knew what he was looking for we started the envisioning step. I asked him to paint a picture either in his mind, written, or drawn of his ideal partner. Was she a brunette? What type of body? What color hair. We then discussed closing his eyes and actually seeing this person, doing the things together that they both enjoy doing. It’s best to do this when going to bed at night and again when awakening in the morning. These are the times that you’re closest to alpha brainwave state and most susceptible to having you visions become part of you.

We then headed into the action step. He was on his way to a conference sponsored by Bob Proctor and some others from The Secret team. What an opportunity to meet others of like interests, I was really excited for him. This is a perfect example of taking action to achieve what you desire. Whatever your desire or goal you can’t just daydream about it. If it’s a car get the brochure, if it’s a job read the help wanted. You’ve got to listen to your heart and it will tell you what you need to do. The actions you need to take will start to reveal themselves to you.

So what’s next? Gratitude of course. Many people don’t really understand this step but it is crucial. Without belief that you will find your perfect partner or job or whatever I promise you… you NEVER will. You can’t be truly grateful for something you don’t believe you will have and gratitude helps you with that belief. If you’ll return to the affirmation step you’ll see I used the words I’m so happy and grateful that… Gratitude is not really a separate step in applying the Law of Attraction. It is used throughout the process. When you’re envisioning being with your new partner and experiencing the joy of spending time with this person show gratitude for the experience. When you’re taking action and going to the places where you see yourself finding your new partner believe that she will be there be grateful that you are in the right place to find your perfect partner.

Isn’t it wonderful how when you’re in tune with the Universe wonderful things just begin to happen? I just received a message from the young man who inspired this article. He’s back from the conference and he had a wonderful time. He didn’t mention finding the girl of his dreams there but there is no doubt in my mind that he is on his way and the young lady he is looking for will be in his life soon. He’s Applying the Law of Attraction and he knows it works.

Thursday, April 12, 2007

How to Apply the Law of Attraction at Work

Do you like your job? Do you enjoy getting up each day and going wherever it is you go to work? Now the answer to this is not so obvious. There are indeed many people who really enjoy their chosen career. My purpose here is to help you enjoy whatever it is you're doing more.

Let's start focusing on the most positive aspects of our job. Over the next few days, when you're truly enjoying what you're doing at work make a note of it. For example, I just got off a training call with a client and the client was very appreciative of the time (even though they paid for it) and what we accomplished on the call. I had a good time. So I make a note that I enjoy opportunities to train on the phone. Ok, so you get the idea. Now if this takes more than a few days fine just keep at it until you have a list of 10 or 12 things you enjoy about your job.

Now, let's take your list and review it. Are there some entries that are similar or require the same skill set from you? Group those together. Take your new combined list and start to outline the skills your are using in the different activities that you are having a good time doing. This is the Know step.

Now we get to the Law of Attraction part.

Take each group and design an ideal job description around those skills. Take at least 1 week or more to do this. Be as specific as you are able in designing this job. This is the Ask step.

Write down a visualization exercise around this ideal job. Where are you working? Not what company but where - outside, inside, in the forest, in an auditorium? What are you wearing? A suit, Bermuda shorts, a ski parka? Are you alone or are there 1000 people sitting and waiting for you to speak? Make it as clear as you can. Do you travel to get to work? Are you working in your pajamas? Work on this visualization as often as the spirit moves you make it an ongoing continuous project. As your are working on this close your eyes periodically and imagine it actually taking place. This is the Envision step.

Start looking for more opportunities where you are to start doing more of these activities that you enjoy. Is there someone where you are now who does all these activities as their job? What's the job title? Do you know anyone who does what you want to do somewhere else? Get together with them and ask them what they did to prepare for this job. Is there an organization of these people who do this type of work? Join the organization. This is the Act step.

Every opportunity you get to do the activities you enjoy... Be Grateful. Thank anyone who helps you while you're working on this project. As you do something you enjoy write down a quick gratitude statement. "I am so grateful I had the opportunity to ... this afternoon" This is the Gratitude step.

It's really difficult to be unhappy or angry when you're spending the majority of your time focusing on things you enjoy doing and being grateful for them. Achieving your desires is not a destination, it's a journey.

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

"Why Men Die Before Women
and How to Prevent it"

The Secret of the Secret is that it is not new. It's been modernized and put into a Hollywood-type book & video. Napoleon Hill, Wallace Waddles, James Allen, Al J Scaglione, the Hicks, Shakti Gulwain (Oprah endorsed her book years ago) have been sharing the "Secret" for close to 100 Years.

Oprah recently had a show dedicated to the "Secret" and millions watched Oprah and her panel of "Secret" professionals talk about the "Law of Attraction". But the fact is unless one embraces the hard work attached to its principals, the "Law of Attraction" doesn't work.

/24-7PressRelease/ - April 04, 2007 - It is virtually impossible to suddenly wake up one day and say "Today, I will start being positive". Feelings that have been buried in the subconscious for years suddenly help to erase the positive feelings that want to emerge. One must take steps to discard negative emotions and build new positive ones, while living life in a manner that is attracting your wishes, goals and dreams.

Author Al J Scaglione has been working with a revolutionary meditative exercise "The Self-Discovery Meditation" for over twelve years. It is the first complete meditative exercise that embraces all the principals of "the Law of Attraction". The book "Why Men Die Before Women and How to Prevent it" co-authored by Al J Scaglione and Philip Shore MD, PhD. explains in detail how to rid yourself of your negativity, reduce stress, learn to live a more productive life and accomplish your goals. The exercises in the book are medically validated by Dr. Shore.

"Why Men Die Before Women and How to Prevent it" gives simple step by step exercises to accomplish one's goals. The approach has been utilized by Mr. Scaglione for years working with actors and getting them through fear and negativity to a relaxed state whereby the actor could relax and emotionalize his true feelings. Dr. Shore, a medical doctor and research cardiologist examines all of Mr. Scaglione's exercises from a medical perspective and explains why they work. The book was written for men because men have a more difficult time displaying their true emotions and in doing so create more stress in their lives preventing them from accomplishing their goals. This leads to illness and disease creating the gap in longevity that exist today. However, women have also embraced the exercises and found them a valuable tool in living a long healthy and productive life. The book is available at Barnes and Noble, Amazon, Borders, and many online bookstores all over the world.

Tuesday, April 10, 2007

"Why Most Affirmations Fail and The Four Building Blocks of Successful Affirmations"

I read an eBook this week that all serious students of the Law of Attraction should read. The title of the book is "Why Most Affirmations Fail and The Four Building Blocks of Successful Affirmations - by Jennifer Shepherd. Jennifer is a syndicated spirituality and astrology columnist with over 2 million readers in newspapers and magazines across the US. She promotes a user-friendly approach to all things spiritual. Jennifer is graciously offering my readers a 40% discount off the full price of $27.00. So, for the next two weeks only, that means the sale ends April 22nd, you can have this must read book for only $16.00. If you have ever wondered why affirmations are not working for you, you will find the answer here:

Saturday, April 7, 2007

Applying the Law of Attraction News
April 8, 2007

I was truly blessed this week to be able to offer support and counsel to two young ladies who had both experienced some really difficult challenges in their lives over the past year. They were both still very angry and resentful and were really struggling to apply the Law of Attraction to their lives. In both cases, I suggested gratitude as the way to address their anger and resentment. Everything that happens to us in our lives gives us an opportunity to grow and I believe it is very helpful to be grateful for the lessons that we take away from these situations. You'll never guess what this issues Feature Article deals with...

The Law of Attraction News

Thursday, April 5, 2007

The Law of Attraction Through Self-Esteem

Dallas, TX 3/20/2007 7:56 PM GMT (TransWorldNews)
Law of Attraction Through Healthy Self-Esteem
The Great Affirmation

Tapping into the Law of Attraction through Healthy Self-Esteem with Best Selling Author, Speaker, and Dynamic Life Coach Tamir Qadree will assist you in reaching your promise land.

Please join us in congratulating Mr. Qadree as he has been selected to be one of newest Faculty members for Success University. You can listen to Tamir's Great Affirmation audio on Success University site. To be associated with this training center is truly an honor. Tamir is amongst a great company at Success University. Other well known faculty member's include, Les Brown, Brian Tracy, Nido Quebin, Dr. Denis Waitley, Zig Ziglar to name a few.

Tamir motivates, inspires and lays it on the line for entrepreneurs, direct sells people, network marketing professionals and real estate professionals and even stay at home moms. He gives you the jewels on every conference, seminar and coaching session. When you hire Tamir as your Life Coach you will walk away with tangible ideas and strategies that you can implement RIGHT NOW! Tamir is all about increasing your vibration by changing your energy and how you feel about yourself. When you change the way you feel to a more positive frequency you change what you attract. You can have the Law of Attraction work for you or against you. This is one of many things Mr. Qadree talks about in his recently released book, “The Reclining Master Awaken, One Minute to Healthy Esteem” along with his personal trials, pain and many heart-felt losses.

For more information on Tamir Qadree or any of his products and services, you may visit him at, or by calling toll free (877) OPEN-ESTEEM.

"The Secret" as Seen on - Oprah and Larry King - Scientifically Proven to be Valid by M.I.T. and Stanford Researchers

iCAP™Release Meter a new technological breakthrough accurately measures and records your subconscious thought activity and clearly reveals your unconscious limitations.

Sherman Oaks, CA (PRWeb) April 5, 2007 -- Researchers from M.I.T. (Massachusetts Institute of Technology) and Stanford University have developed the iCAP Release Meter. It is a device that accurately measures and displays - in graphs, numbers, pictures and through an auditory tone - your level of brain activity from moment to moment.

Larry Crane, author, researcher and teacher of The Release Technique (discovered by Lester Levenson, a physicist and scientist and developer of The Release® Technique), has been teaching the world how to let go of any bothering thoughts in seconds for over 30 years.

Now the world has heard about "The Secret", as discussed in all the major media. Mr. Crane, together with a host of scientists can now prove that "The Law of Attraction" manifests what you are thinking, both positive and negative thoughts and your feelings, determine your life results. "The Secret" claims that our own suppressed feelings are the root cause of all our problems. Subconscious thought activity is going on 24 hours a day, whether we like it or not.

It's like we have downloaded a million different self-destructive viruses into our computer mind and these viruses are now continuously sabotaging and limiting our life.

Dr. Raul Rodriguez, Medical Director of Rivercrest Hospital in San Angelo, Texas, says "The iCAP™ Release Meter is really amazing. I am now getting real and constant feed-back about my mind and quieting down more and more, and then you can let go of the negativity so you can start reversing negative directions easily."

Dr. David B. Durand, former Director of Surgical Pathology at Stony Brook University Hospital, in Stony Brook, NY, says "I can strongly recommend the iCAP Release Meter to anyone who wants to quiet their mind rapidly and remain positive. An added bonus is that the Abundance Course, which teaches one how to release negativity, has been incorporated into the software, so even a novice can use it effectively and measure his or her improvement. The iCAP™ Release Meter will act like a compass for you and show if you are headed in the right direction with clarity of the mind. The iCAP™ Release Meter enabled me to reach new levels of quiet simply by showing me where I was and where I was headed. Have you ever wondered whether you are becoming quieter? The iCAP™ will give you the proof."

Through a tiny electrode and 1 oz. transmitter embedded in a comfortable, lightweight headband, your brainwaves are instantly measured, transmitted and recorded.

ANY issue at all - no matter how subtle or seemingly well-hidden - that poses any kind of disturbance to your subconscious mind, will instantly be revealed on-screen - even if you may consciously "think" it is a non-issue.

But don't worry! You'll know 100% when it finally is fully released - and the wonderful feeling of peace that you feel when it is finally released will certainly reflect the shift that the iCAP™ Release Meter just measured.

You can't fake the Meter out, or pretend the issue isn't there. If it's a live limitation running in your mind, you will see it reflected in your "release number" and through the "blue bouncing ball", the "advanced graph", or the "auditory tone."

No other technology in the world is specifically designed to help you get to a fully "released" state the way the iCAP™ Release Meter is.

One advantage that theiCAP Release Meter holds over traditional biofeedback technologies is the fact that you can use it yourself in the comfort of your own home - or on the road with your laptop if you travel. You don't need an operator to assist you. Once you've installed the software and USB stick (very easy), you just put on the headband and off-you-go! Your brainwaves are instantly measured and fed back to you live on your computer screen.

The iCAP Release Meter allows you to connect wirelessly to your desktop or laptop - PC or Mac - to measure your subconscious thought activity anytime, anywhere.

Having an awareness of what makes the meter rise and fall, and having a solid feel of what the "released" state feels like will be a HUGE aid for helping you get the most out of your releasing - and for helping you easily maintain the released state throughout your day - despite outer circumstances.

Many EEG systems on the market are incredibly expensive. Some range upward of $15,000 and they don't do what the iCAP Release Meter does. We don't believe there is another machine like the iCAP™ on the market. The closest "competitor" we have come across offers an overly complicated EEG unit that uses "goopy" conductant gel (that you put on your head with electrodes) and it costs almost $2,000. And it looks like you practically need a Ph.D. in neuroscience to use the thing. They say it's mainly for "research purposes". It looks that way. Bottom line is that it does not show you if you are in the "released" state that Lester's Method guides us to. The iCAP™ Release Meter does.

Supporting Studies: iCAP™ Technologies is committed to continuing our research and development in this cutting-edge field of study. On the following page, we list relevant academic studies for those interested in exploring some of the science behind the iCAP™ Release Meter. Science Background

Lawrence Crane is the President of Lawrence Crane Enterprises Inc, a training and coaching company which has been teaching the Release Technique for more than 30 years. For more information please visit

Forgiveness The Divine Connection
Author: Cindy Goldenberg

Borders Book Signing April 28, 12 Noon 'Forgiveness The Divine Connection' Author Cindy Goldenberg

Like The Secret? Exciting new book makes law of attraction easy. Profound angelic encounters, clairvoyant intuition and simple metaphysical principles in a fascinating book that makes forgiveness practical. Cindy Goldenberg signs her book in person at Borders, Mission Viejo, CA 4/28/07.

Laguna Niguel, CA (PRWeb) April 5, 2007 -- Cindy Goldenberg signs copies of her new book, "Forgiveness-The Divine Connection," at Borders in Mission Viejo 12 Noon April 28 -- address: 25222 El Paseo Mission Viejo, CA 92691 Phone: 949-367-0005.

Just like "The Secret's" Law of Attraction -- "Forgiveness-The Divine Connection" shows how thoughts and intentions constantly magnetize and attract experiences. Attract joy, abundance, serenity and love. Manifest your desires, successes and riches -- create a great life through these amazing forgiveness principles. This new book with remarkable insights.

Meet Cindy Goldenberg, the author, a clairvoyant medium who stumbled into the ethereal world of auras, angels and the afterlife after pioneering her son's recovery from vaccine-induced developmental delays and implementing lessons of forgiveness. An alternative health rights advocate and pioneer, now a spiritual empowerment motivational speaker, Cindy shares her story of despair and triumph, insight and intuition.

Full of significant perception, the book relates fascinating experiences, with clairvoyant explanations of earthbound spirits, ethereal energy, the afterlife, angelic messages and more. Inspirational and divine, the book describes voices from heaven as natural occurrences.

"Through forgiveness, all things are not only possible, but inevitable."
Create a higher awareness and realize your God-given Divine Connection. Learn to let go, and receive your deserved worth and heart's desire. You are hard-wired to be happy, healthy and prosperous now.

Foregiveness-The Divine Connection is available in paperback, ebook and as a special ebook with bonus articles, at

The Desperation Cycle And Failing Motivation
by Kurt Mortensen

Many think motivation is useless because it doesn’t ensure
long-lasting results. This thought tendency can be seen in what I call
the Desperation Cycle. The Desperation Cycle shows how human nature
influences us to take the easiest path instead of the best one. In
persuasion, we need to pull people out of the Desperation Cycle and
into permanent, long-term motivation.

We all know we are creatures of habit. We are like water following the
path of least resistance. As creatures of habit, we dwell in our
comfort zones, places where we don’t have to think or expend
much energy in analyzing our surroundings. In these zones, we become
complacent, comfortable and resistant to change. We live by habit and
routine in our comfort zones. We don’t stretch or strive for
excellence. We consider change only when the pain of our current
situation becomes too intense to ignore. Fear of the unknown and fear
of making mistakes are also reasons why we stay in our comfort zone. We
love our comfort zone because it is a safe place where we can reduce
our mistakes and keep our failures to a minimum. Mark Twain said,
“A cat that steps on a hot stove once will never step on a
hot stove again but neither will it step on a cold one.” The
comfort zone is safe and warm, but it keeps us paralyzed and
unmotivated to venture out of it.

In the Desperation Cycle, we first feel safe in our comfort zone. Then,
fear even begins to creep into our complacency. Only then do we realize
that we haven’t accomplished any of the things we need to do.
Suddenly, we fear what we are becoming and where we are going. As we
contemplate our destination, we panic and work frantically to save
ourselves. This frantic rehabilitation lasts just long enough for us to
see exactly how steep the hill is going to be or how long the marathon
really is. Then the excitement dies. We numb ourselves to these stark
realizations and find ourselves lulled back into our comfort zone.

Let’s say you have a high school reunion coming up, but for
the past decade, you’ve been enjoying some of
life’s finer foods. Over the years, your pants have become a
little tighter and tighter. You don’t want to go your reunion
in this fat stage. You then begin to fear what it’s going to
be like to show up at your reunion looking this way. Panic hits and you
vow that you will lose weight before the looming event arrives. To that
end, you starve yourself. You even start to exercise. The pounds come
off and you go to your reunion, a slimmer and more confident
individual. Then the cycle comes full circle. You get home and think
it’d be nice to continue shedding the pounds, but you realize
it’s harder than you thought. You begin to enjoy the finer
things in life again, just a little bit at first then more and more as
time goes by. The weight then returns and you start the vicious cycle
all over again.

About the Author

Learning to persuade and influence will make the difference between
hoping for a better income and having a better income. Beware of the
mistakes persuaders commit that cause them to lose the deal. Go to
and explode your income!

Wednesday, April 4, 2007

A Miracle a Day

Are you familiar with A Course in Miracles? I came across a blog yesterday that highlights the daily lessons from A Course in Miracles called appropriately enough A Miracle a Day. Jodee Bock does a very nice job with this and I am pleased to recommend it to you for your consideration.

Tuesday, April 3, 2007

Meet Rhonda Byrne, the creator of
The Secret (for real) Inside The Secret...

I'm sure you've heard of the wildly popular film and best-selling book, The Secret, by now.

The stars of the show have appeared everywhere from CNN to Oprah, Larry King to Show Biz Tonight and The New York Times.

But what nobody has shared yet is the REAL story.

So when I found out my friends at Healthy Wealthy nWise were providing an authorized, intimate portrait with creator and executive producer, Rhonda Byrne, I had to check it out. By the way, they're calling it The Story Behind The Secret.

Rhonda is using this interview to share her side of the story about The Secret and the way it is gaining massive momentum on the way to bringing Joy to Billions. Just as she and her team intended it would back in 2004.

What you haven't heard in all the media frenzy is Rhonda Byrne's intimate REAL story behind The Secret that must be told.

In this heart-felt one-on-one interview, Marci Shimoff (co-author of the mega-best-seller Chicken Soup for the Woman's Soul & star of The Secret) will ask Rhonda many of your burning questions that weren't asked in the mainstream media.

If you wanted to know ...
* the inside story behind the creation and unfolding of The
Secret that the other guys glossed over...

* the unique never-before-revealed way she used the
principles of The Secret herself to turn The Secret into a
global phenomenon (6 million people in Ghana, Africa who
would never have been able to experience this wisdom were
able to watch the secret for FREE because of this

* about the surprising plans for The Secret II...

Then this interview is a must.

So here is the really great part, when I talked to my friends over at Healthy Wealthy nWise and they told me I could invite you to attend the LIVE Story Behind The Secret Interview as my guest - for no charge!

Your ticket is waiting for you at...

Now the publicity for this interview is massive so space is very limited. With millions of promotional emails going out and a massive publicity campaign rolling out the capacity for the call will be maxed out fast.

So to collect your ticket and secure your seat to the Live Story Behind The Secret interview go to

Log-in with your name and email address and follow the simple instructions.

Monday, April 2, 2007

Does The Law work for you?

Does The Law work for you?

Scientists have proven over and over that universal laws work each and every time.

For example, the Law of Gravity works every single time. You drop a brick. It hits the ground very quickly. (Watch out for your toes when you do this!)

It doesn't matter if you believe in the Law of Gravity, it still applies to you.

Just like there's a Law of Gravity, there's a Law that determines what you get in life. That Law has been working for - or against - you since you were born.

You may not have known about the law. Might not have paid attention to it. Might not care about it. Might not even believe it's true.

But this Law applies to you anyway.

If you're not getting everything you want out of life, then the Law is definitely working... it's just not working to your benefit.

If that's the case, then I urge you to go this site ASAP so you can find out how make this Law work for you.

Here's how to get everything you want:

The Secret of 'The Secret' to be
Outed April 28

Richmond, VA (PRWeb) April 2, 2007 -- Stephen Hawley Martin, Publisher of The Oaklea Press, announced today that on April 28 his firm will release a book entitled "How to Master Life: The Science Behind The Secret" meant to help those who are having difficulty employing The Law of Attraction for their benefit, or "The Secret" as it has become known due to the popular book and movie of that name.

Martin said, "Belief is the key to having The Law of Attraction work. But not everyone is able to believe, and they get what they expect -- little or no results. But once the science behind the the secret is known, belief is no longer a matter of faith. A reader of this book will accept that The Law works as surely as gravity works and this is often all that's needed for results to occur."

The book focuses on a scientific theory originally presented by Thomas Troward at Queens Gate in Edinburgh, Scotland, in 1904, in a series called "The Edinburgh Lectures on Mental Science." Although his theory was hailed as brilliant by many in academia, Troward wrote and spoke in stilted, nineteenth century scientific jargon, which made the theory difficult if not impossible for ordinary people even in his day to understand. This has been remedied by the plain English translation of Troward's lectures presented in Oaklea's new book.

Martin said that a brief discussion of a quantum physics experiment also has been included, the findings of which provide sound evidence that Troward's theory is valid. Included as well are easily followed steps readers can take to put "The Secret" to work.

Thomas Troward (1847-1916) was born in Punjab, India to British parents. He was educated in England, and graduated college with gold metal honors. Stephen Hawley Martin, a prizewinning author, editor, and successful businessman, is author of "Keys to the Kingdom," a New Consciousness staple. More information about Martin, his works and an excerpt from "How to Master Life: The Science Behind The Secret" can be found at

The Oaklea Press was founded in 1995. The firm publishes fiction, metaphysical and self-help books, and a successful line of business management books that help executives run businesses more efficiently.

Sunday, April 1, 2007

7 Facts You Need to Know Before Using
“The Secret” Law of Attraction

I just read an awesome blog post entitled 7 Facts You Need to Know Before Using “The Secret” Law of Attraction. This is one of the most concise descriptions I’ve read. I’m seeing more and more negative reviews of The Secret by people who have either not really watched the entire film or have watched it with a mind not ready to receive. YES, there is a genie in the movie but if that’s all you see you just weren’t paying attention. I was a student of one of the mystery schools for over seven years. This knowledge was kept closely held for generations. Some wrote of it, Wallace Wattles and Charles Haanel are examples of New Thought authors who in the 1920’s clearly explained the Law of Attraction. If you haven’t read Mental Chemistry yet you can get it for free by signing up on my website. I enthusiastically recommend you read 7 Facts You Need to Know Before Using“The Secret” Law of Attraction.